Dad

That’s me!

I am the father of the three critters.

I chronicle my kids’ antics and try take a laissez-faire approach to parenting until my wife whips me into shape. I like reading, writing and keeping an organized house. The latter is a rarity. I’m from West L.A., from an upper-scale neighborhood called Brentwood Glen that my four brothers and sisters and I managed to bring down a notch. We rode skateboards, threw things where they shouldn’t have been thrown and played punk rock, noisily and incoherently. A neighbor once tried to get rid of us. We stayed. We matured. Now we’re all-around good people with a tinge of rebel.

May my kids behave better!

How to Sleep in as a Father of Three

by Charles Newbery

Posted in: Dad

Yeah, nothing like a good lie-in

My son is an early riser.

I can hear him turn on the television at the break of dawn.

A deafening thunder rattles me out of sleep. Then I hear him scrambling to find the controls before the volume comes down to a near silence.

I then hear my other two children, eight and three, wander down the stairs. The dog yelps and my wife, lying at my side, groans out just audibly, “The dog wants to go out,” before she pulls the pillow over her head again.

Then I hear my own footsteps going down the stairs and think, we need to get rid of the TV.

Or have the in-laws move in. [click to continue reading…]

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Cool Dad?

by Charles Newbery

Posted in: Dad

"I should have worn cutoffs!"

Merry Christmas!

We’re on the coast of Argentina for the summer holidays.

It’s hot and sunny.

This is very much a homecoming for my family. Every summer we come back to our house in a pine forest a few blocks from the beach. This is Pinamar. We lived here for a little over two years, a place that we came to call our pine tree paradise. They were hard but glorious years that suddenly came to a halt as the crappy global economy and the need for better schooling for our children and professional help for our son, who has autism, drove us back to Buenos Aires.

But every year we return to spend our summers here, and we pine for it throughout the year. [click to continue reading…]

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"You can do it Dad!"

Thanksgiving always brings back memories of my childhood in West L.A.

I was there on my own for two weeks in February and two years before that with my entire family.

But with three children it is getting harder to travel there from our home in Argentina.

Not mentally.

I can still remember most of the details of our old house, a bungalow with a huge bougainvillea out front. The house was torn down in the 2000s and replaced by another. The new house was trucked in during the night. The movers cut the new house – a two-storey house from Santa Monica – into four sections and moved each part on a separate truck. They had to disconnect and reconnect telephone and power cables to get it across town, from Santa Monica to Brentwood Glen. [click to continue reading…]

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The Pits: Experiments in Deodorants

deodorant, antiperspirant, body odor, smell, perspiration, armpits, dad

I decided to do a olfactory experiment. I have sensitive skin, especially in my armpits. When I was a kid and discovered the potential for odor, I started, as would be expected, to use deodorant. I borrowed my dad’s Speed Stick and so began years of application that extended to perfumed soaps, shower gels and [...]

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Endless Bummer

parenting, drinking, pinamar, beach, dad

WE WENT TO the coast this weekend with friends. We cooked beef on the barbeque and had a long night talking and laughing as we sat at a table under the pine trees. The kids – five of them – raced around until the tiredness of the night put them to sleep and we adults [...]

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How to Do Home Repair

home repair, diy, mum, dad, keeping a house

MY FORTE ISN’T home repair and maintenance. My wife knows that and for the most part she doesn’t complain. I put up a shelf in the kitchen. It came out crooked even after my eyeballing it and using a scale. I looked nervously at my wife and confessed my blunder. She shrugged her shoulders and [...]

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Daddy Cash: A Cool Way to Financial Freedom

financial freedom, credit cards, cash, financial independence, cash-only lifestyle, parenting, dad

WE’VE GONE CASH only. Yes, no credit cards, just cash. Almost. We’re trying. It’s our aim to pay for everything from clothes to food and health insurance for our family of five with what we earn and without borrowing from credit cards at outrageously high interest rates. This will be my first cash-only lifestyle since university [...]

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How to Get by on Less

  MY WIFE AND I are retro and it’s a pain. We have a fat-screen TV. Yes, that’s fat as in pudgy. We’ve never much cared about its age or size. We bought the set for the 1998 World Cup, and only for that really. We were more interested in going out than watching movies [...]

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The Kid

I’M THE YOUNGEST of five so naturally I think of myself as, well, the youngster. I still think so even at the age of 43. For my work as a journalist, I speak to a lot of people, mostly by phone and less often but still frequently in person at press conferences, interviews, on the [...]

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Melody Maker

I TRAVELED TO the U.S. for a couple weeks last month and on the airplane home my iPod went dead. It happened on the first leg of the trip, from Los Angeles to Atlanta, leaving me with the Atlanta-Buenos Aires leg with only airplane entertainment. Mind you, it has vastly improved – you can choose [...]

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